Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Jesus Christ is Our King

Hello all,

I wanted to share with you the homily that I offered on this past Solemnity of Christ the King.


I find that I, myself, am coming back to these words are readings as a inspiration for prayer and reflection.  I hope that they might offer the same for you.


Homily on Christ the King


I'm not sure how long this like will work since it is saved on our parish website.

Let me know if you can't hear it if you are interested and I'll try to get the link to work/work again.

Here are all the friar's homilies that are updated regularly from St. Paul Church


Monday, October 21, 2013

The Sacrament of Reconciliation

I often hear people say something like, "I don't go to the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  I just pray to Jesus personally and He forgives my sins.  I don't believe that I have to tell a priest my sins"

I understand this.  This way of thinking about God's mercy and how He forgives sin makes a lot of sense.  However, I think there is an unstated presumption.  I wonder if by having this idea [that I can have my sins forgiven in private] doesn't presume that God wants the forgiveness of sin to be a private matter.

I think I might be able to clarify this by drawing an analogy.

Consider our view of liberty in the United States of America.  I'm a huge fan of my country.  I love the USA and I cherish the freedoms that I've been blessed with.  

Here in the USA we, correctly, understand that liberty means that each one of us has the right to our own opinions on politics, politicians, platforms of political parties, and just about anything that we'd like.  Liberty means that I can decide whatever I want and no one has the right to tell me what to think, who to vote for, or what issues to support or oppose.  Essentially this means that my personal politics are very private!

In our culture the more important some value or idea is the more we hold it as being private.  When we vote we vote privately, when we form our opinions we are free to do so in private, and when we have opinions we are always free to hold onto them without any outside influence.  Essentially our politics are very important to us as a society and as a result of that we hold them to be extremely private.  The more important a value or idea is, in our society, the more we hold it as private.

It is true that a lot of people share their opinions publicly but their views were formed and are held as private and outside anyone else's influence.

In my humble opinions this is the very foundation of true political liberty.  But I don't think this is the same value that Jesus had in mind when He initiated the ministry of forgiveness of sins.  The values that are the foundation for our understanding of liberty, in the 21st century United States of America, are not the same values that Jesus was acting out of when He sent his apostles out into the world to forgives sins. (Jn 20:19-23)

When Jesus initiated the ministry of the forgiveness of sins He sent out the Apostles with the command to forgive sins.  Jesus did not tell them to instruct people to pray to God privately for their sins to be forgiven.  Rather Jesus gave the apostles authority to forgive sins.  The successors to the apostles where then called bishops and the bishops ordained presbyters (normally called priests today) to help them in their ministry of the forgiveness of sins.

So today we have bishops and presbyters (AKA: priests) who are charged with the ministry of the forgiveness of sins.  No one is given the ability, authority, or ministry to forgive their own sins.  Even the pope has to confess his sins to another bishop or priest.

The whole notion of confessing to God in private and then having Him forgive is not in line with the ministry that Jesus started.  I know that it is not easy to humble yourself and muster your courage and confess to another person.  Ever since I have been ordained it has actually become more difficult for me to go to confession.  I understand.  I'm not a big fan of going to confession myself but I do it.

I am frequently saddened by the stories that people tell me of the times that they have been hurt and humiliated by a priest in confession.  I am so sorry that this happens.  I know that moments like this are painful.  I've been treated like that myself when I've gone to confession.  Regardless of  these moments of pain I still believe that the ministry of the forgiveness of sins is still the work of the bishops and the priests.  If we seek certainty and assurance that we have fully received the mercy of God then I don't know any way to come to that knowledge apart from the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  If we want to be sure that we have been forgiven the only way is the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  

Think about it this way: if we pray to God in private and ask Him to forgive our sins then who's really doing the forgiving?  If we pray to God in private, on our terms, in a way that is comfortable for us are we really humbling ourselves before a God who is offering mercy?  Or are we dictating the time, manner, and way that we will allow God to forgive us?  If we ask for mercy in private aren't we really telling God when and how to forgive us?  If we tell God to forgive us in private aren't we really demanding that He forgive our sins on our terms?  

If this is the case then who's really the one who is forgiving sins?  If we are telling God to forgive us in private (on our terms) is God the one who is forgiving or are we absolving ourselves... because we will only accept absolution on our terms, when we want it, and how we want it?  Where's the humility in that?  Where's the ministry of the apostles in that?

In other words when we seek the forgiveness of our sins in private aren't really absolving ourselves and expecting that God will ratify our decision?  

Who's really doing the forgiving? Did Jesus ever give us the authority to forgive ourselves?

When we seek absolution in private aren't we really notifying God of our decision, that our sins are forgiven, and then expecting that He will go along with what we just decided?

Do we really expect that being forgiven of our sins and forming our own personal political opinions can happen the same way... in private?  Are those two things [absolution and opinions] alike in any way?!?

In fact, when we expect that we can find forgiveness of our sins in private we are just absolving ourselves.  I have no doubt that God's grace can even show up in moments like that.  But I don't think it is a good idea to dictated to God how, when, and under what circumstances He can forgive us.

The only way that I know of where we can find certain mercy is through the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Jesus sent out the apostles to forgives sins.  His intention was that this ministry would be a moment of humility and grace where a sinner was shown mercy through the ministry and work of the apostles.  Jesus did not intent that the powerful experience of absolution to be a matter of personal opinion.  Forgiveness of our sins is not something that happens in private.


Saturday, October 12, 2013

Pope Francis' new car

Fr. Tim showed me this cartoon of Pope Francis today.

I really did laugh out loud so I thought I'd share it with you.



He regularly reads political cartoons from GoComics.com and this one was drawn by Joe Heller and published on the website on Sept. 20th.

Enjoy!

Saturday, October 5, 2013

He makes it look easy and fun

Hello all, as a woodworker I love this type of video.

So I wanted to share it with you.

Chris uses only hand tools which is the way that I got started woodworking a few years ago.

I've always wanted to make a rocking chair so maybe someday I'll this this.

Enjoy!

Friday, October 4, 2013

Happy Feast of St. Francis

Happy Feast of St. Francis!

I hope everyone has a wonderful feast day!

The saying of St. Francis that has been a strong theme in my prayer lately has been his words while he was on his death bed.

The friars came to him worried that they would not know what to do after he was gone.  They had looked to him to guide them in what they should be doing.

His response was, "I have done what is mine to do, may Christ teach you what is yours."

This isn't easy.  At times I've wished Christ had different lessons that He needed me to learn and different tasks that He wanted me to do.  This has been a reoccurring theme during this first year of my ordained ministry.

Humility, meekness, and service seem to be things that I need to learn how to do more and a better job of.  These seems to be what is mine to learn about and do, above all.

So, if you can, say a prayer for me this wonderful feast day and I'll be sure to say one for you.

God bless and happy Feast of St. Francis.

Thursday, October 3, 2013

A language event: My thoughts on Pope Francis

In his book What really Happened at Vatican II John W. O'Malley summarized the Second Vatican Council as a "language event"

O'Malley makes the point that what is said by the Church, and it's leaders, is as important as how it is said.  "The 'what' of speech and the 'how' of speech are inseparable."  The idea is that the attitude that the Church brings to its conversation with the world communicates a huge message.

At points in the history of the Catholic Church we have been hostile, withdrawn from, uncomfortable with, and excessively critical of the world that we live in.  The words and proclamations of the Church have, in the past, been filled with condemnations, criticisms, and condescension.

Again, O'Malley makes the point that the tone of the message at Vatican II was profoundly different.  For the first time in a very long time the Church changed Her way of speaking to the world.

Beautifully the documents of the Second Vatican Council were filled with words like, "brothers/sisters, friendship, cooperation, collaboration, partnership, freedom, dialogue,... servant, evolution,... dignity, holiness, conscience, collegiality,... liberty, equality, fraternity."

The bottom line is that the style of language that is used is, "really the ultimate expression of meaning.  The "what" of speech and the "how" of speech are inseparable."

One of the main points of his book is that there are
"Almost two different versions of Catholicism: from commands to invitations, from laws to ideas, from definition to mystery, from threats to persuasion, from coercion to conscience, from monologue to dialogue, from ruling to serving, from withdrawn to integrated, from vertical to horizontal, from exclusion to inclusion, from hostility to friendship, from rivalry to partnership, from suspicion to trust, from static to ongoing, from passive acceptance to active engagement, from fault-finding to appreciation, from prescription to principled, from behavior modification to inner appropriation."
Throughout much of our history we have been a Church of commands, laws, definitions, threats, coercion, rules, withdrawn, exclusion, hostility, suspicion, static, and fault-finding.  At the Second Vatican Council there was this shift to invitation, ideas, mystery, persuasion, conscience, dialogue, serving, inclusion, friendship, partnership, trust, active engagement, principles, and inner conversion.

One of the realities of the time after the Council is that this shift hadn't fully sank in.  The world continued to change and often we, as a Church, reverted to the pre-Vatican II model of relating to the world.  I don't think that many in the Church would see it this way but I know that many on the fringes of the Church or outside of the Church certainly see it this way.

There is an old latin phrase, "Lex Orandi Lex Credendi Lex Vivendi."  Translated loosely it means, how we pray effects how we believe and how we live.  Please notice, that in recent memory there has been a resurgence of the old latin mass, in the Church.  This was that mass that the Second Vatican Council revised because with a new attitude toward the world we needed a new way to pray.  Much of the symbolism and rites of the old latin mass did express the old attitudes of the pre-Vatican II Church.  The Novus Ordo (the mass after Vatican II) expresses the shift in attitude that the Council had toward the world.  As we have gotten away from the inclusive and open attitude of the Council it makes sense that many have gravitated back toward the mass that predates it.  In this case how we lived and believed began to be express in the old latin mass.  I don't think that this is a good thing at all.

How we pray really does effect what we believe and how we live.  So to see a growing affection for an old form of the mass (that was all-but the opposite of inclusion, participation, active engagement, and inner conversion) seems to show that the shift in attitude of Vatican II has begun to slip back toward the old attitude of hostility, exclusion, and suspicion.  The Church was slowly forgetting the attitude of openness, welcoming, service, inclusion, and friendship that Vatican II had offered the world.

Now we can fast forward to Pope Francis and his recent interviews.  I've listened to a number of commentators speak about what they think the Pope is saying.

I'm of the opinion that his message is profoundly orthodox and Gospel based.  In a fresh way he is getting to the heart of the Gospel and readopting the attitude of the Second Vatican Council.

Jesus was often criticized by those who thought that they were holy and righteous.
The Pharisees saw this and said to [Jesus'] disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?"
He heard this and said, "Those who are well do not need a physical, but the sick do. Go and learn the meaning of the words 'I desire mercy, not sacrifices.  I did not come to call the righteous but sinners"(Mt 9:11-13)
It seems to me that Pope Francis has learned the meaning of those words, "I desire mercy, not sacrifice."  Mercy and compassion to sinners, non-believer, homosexuals, the poor as well as others is what he is offering.

This is exactly what Jesus called for.  During Jesus' time "sacrifice" was an obligation of the law.  It was a functional, legal, and  non-personal payment for sin that was allowed only to those who were pure, mainstream, or "holy" people.  The outcast, aliens, and sinners were not allowed because they were ritually impure.  Sacrifice, at Jesus' time, had become an act of self-righteousness for many.

For Jesus to eat and relate to sinners was unacceptable to those who considered themselves to be righteous.  For Pope Francis to speak with and relate to atheists, homosexuals, sinners, the poor, and the outcasts of society is also looked down upon as unacceptable, by some.  It seems, to me, that Pope Francis has learned the meaning of Jesus' words, "It is mercy that I desire, not sacrifice"

All of this is most profoundly expressed in his tone, language, and audience.  Pope Francis has become, in his own way, a new "language event" just as the Second Vatican Council was.

Pope Francis hasn't said anything new nor groundbreaking but how he speaks and to whom he speaks is the ultimate expression of meaning.  Pope Francis has adopted the merciful attitude of Jesus, the faith of a true son of the Church, and the inviting language of the Second Vatican Council and created a refreshing phenomena in the Church today.  And people are paying attention!

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Tough Mudder 2014

Hello all,

I'd like to see if any of my readers are interested in joining our Tough Mudder team "Bad Habits"

"Bad Habits" from L to R: Bill, Chris, Brooke, Me, Beth, Sal

Myself and five other brave people participated in this event this past August at Mt. Snow Vermont.  It was the most brutal thing that I have ever done.  





It was so wonderful that me and the team want to do it again.  This time we are opening up the invitation to others who might be crazy enough to join us.

The "Bad Habits" team from L to R: Sal, Chris, Bill, Me, Beth, Brooke

Bad Habits (our team) will be participating at the May 31st event at Mount Snow Vermont.  Email if you are interested in joining us.  Remember that the proceeds all go to support the Wounded Warrior Project.

Consider joining us for the May 2014 Tough Mudder.  It will be very difficult but also promises to be a lot of fun (if you like pain and mud).

If you are interested email me.


Monday, September 30, 2013

Faith and family

Hello all,

I think that the most common issue or question that people ask me about is how to share their faith with their family.

Let me offer some [made-up] examples:


  • My niece doesn't go to church, how can I get her to go?
  • My granddaughter is living with her boyfriend, how can I get her to stop?
  • My (adult) son doesn't believe in God why can't I tell him that he should believe?
  • My sister is telling her friends that God isn't real, how can I convince her that He is?
These are just a few examples.

The basic issue is, "How can I share my faith with my family?"

My answer, YOU DON'T!!!!

Please, PLEASE, PLEASE don't try to talk, explain, or preach to your family.  It doesn't work!

Disclaimer: this does not apply to those who are raising their children.  If you are raising children, by-all-means, explain your faith and teach them about moral living.

For anyone who wants to share their faith with their family (other than children that they are raising) it can only be done by example.

Please remember that Jesus preached the Gospel in His home town and His friends and relatives wanted to throw Him off of a cliff. (Luke 4:16-30)

I promise that you will receive the same type of reaction if and when you try to preach or minister to your family.  I can speak from experience.  I have deeply hurt a brother of mine because of the way that I presumed to "minister" to my family and it does not work!

What can you do?

I really like the words of St. Francis, "Preach always, sometimes use words."

Here's a list of my recommendations for preaching to your family.

  1. Practice your faith with humility (don't do it to be noticed)
  2. SMILE!  Nothing is more attractive than joy and peace.
  3. Keep being humble.
  4. Pray (In secret Mt 6:6)
  5. Live your faith.  Be humble. (I hope you are seeing a pattern)
  6. Never volunteer answers but you can offer to answer questions if they have any.
  7. If, and only if, they ask a question then be well prepared to answer their question.
  8. Do not preach.
  9. Listen very well.
  10. Be ready to share a story of your faith and why it is so important to you.  Nothing is as powerful and personal as a heartfelt story.
I think the bottom line is that if we preach to our family they will draw back.  It will hurt our relationship with them and our message will be rejected.  When we preach to our family we can accomplish the opposite of what we want to do.

We so often want others to believe as we do and love God as we do.  That is wonderful but if we preach to them without their permission then we will actually push them away from God and our faith.  We will be doing the opposite of what we are trying to do.

My experience is that this is not easy to do.  We want to preach to our family but if it didn't work for Jesus it won't work for you.

Trust God that He will send someone into their lives to draw them close to our faith and then make yourself available if God will call you to have a positive effect on the life of someone that is not in your family.

We can't evangelize or preach to our family, others can.
All we can do is live our faith with humility and joy and then 
"always be ready to give an explanation to anyone who asks for a reason for your hope but do it with gentleness and respect."(1 Peter 3:15-16)

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

My favorite thing!

Hello all,

I might have posted this here before but my favorite thing is, questions.

I love questions.  

I know that I'm really bad about posting new content on, but I do know that if someone asks me a question I will be sure to post an answer here on my blog.

So, if my lack of blog material is leaving you wanting more [please hear the sarcasm] then send me questions to answer and I will fill these pages with opinions, ideas, information, stories, and other typed tidbits.

God bless!

Monday, August 26, 2013

My homily: August 25th 2013

Hello all,

As you can tell I have not updated my blog in a while.

I am sorry for this.  It's an honor that so many people check my blog regularly and I'm grateful for that.  

I'm sorry that I have not taken the time to regularly share with you my homilies and my random thoughts.

An update:

Here at St. Paul's Church we have a new website feature.

The homilies of all the friars are audio recorded and then posted to our website.


I will try to post my homilies individually here, in audio form.

I'm sorry if you like the written out version.  Those took me a few hours to type and then illustrate.  My homilies are never written out so I needed to go back and remember what I said and how I said it in order to type it up correctly.  Then finding the pictures and getting everything looking neat took me a very long time.

Here is the audio of my homily this past Sunday


Thank you very much.

Please remember that if you have any questions, concerns, comments, or complaints I'd be glad to address them here.  Just send me an email at FrPeterCFT@gmail.com or FrPeter@StPaulKensington.org

God bless,

Friday, May 24, 2013

Here's a thought

Hello all,

I was just going though my blog looking for a few things that I've posted in the past and I decided to share a thought with you.

Often I'm asked about going deeper in faith: "how to" and "tips" for doing this.


I think the most immediate and basic thing that you can do is read and spend some time (a few minutes) praying with the Sunday readings BEFORE going to mass on Sunday. 

It only takes a few minutes and when you hear the reading proclaimed and the homily you will be much more engaged and you will get a lot more out of the experience of hearing the Word of God proclaimed.

Here is the Bishop's web site and on the top right is a calendar.  Click on the upcoming Sunday and you will see the readings for the upcoming weekend mass here (this is for the Sunday mass on May 26th 2013)

This coming Sunday is Trinity Sunday and I'm struggling with what I'm going to say.  It is not easy explaining the Trinity.

God bless,

Monday, May 20, 2013

Homily: Pentecost Sunday

Hello all, here is my homily from Pentecost Sunday.

Let me know what you think.




Happy Pentecost everyone!

Bye the way... if you struggle with an understanding of the Holy Spirit or if you want the Paraclete to enter your life in a deeper and more significant way pray this prayer!

This prayer, along with reading the Bible*, is the best way that I know to allow the Holy Spirit to flourish in your life more completely.



* If you do not read the Bible I suggest and recommend it very strongly.  Don't read it like you might normally "read the Bible"... just read it as a story book.  Read two chapters a day.  Each chapter is about one page so it's not more than 5 minutes to read a chapter or two.  Read it like you would read a story.  Don't study it, read the story.  

Start with the Gospel of Matthew and then just read the New Testament straight through as a story.
When you are done do it again and each word will come alive more and more and the power of the Holy Spirit will come alive more and more in your life.

God bless you!

Monday, April 29, 2013

Homily: 5th Sunday of Lent, cycle C.

This is the novel that I read.
The other day I finished reading a long novel. My mother gave me it as a Christmas gift and I finally got around to reading it. When I started reading the book I was fighting the temptation, I was trying to resist the urge... but I finally gave in. I flipped to the last page of the book and I read the last few sentences. I was weak and I gave into the desire to see how the story ended.

I think we all want to know how things end. It may be a novel, or a movie, or in this case life. And that is exactly what we see today in our second reading. We see how the whole story ends.


This reading is from the 21st chapter of the Book of Revelation. That book is the last book of the Bible and there are only 22 chapters. This is the final vision. This is the end of the story. Here we see, not just the end of the Bible, but the completion of the whole story.

We see, in this passage, what God has always been doing. We see what God is going to do and what the end of the story of our faith is. Here we see the end of your story, or my story, and of our story.

This is it!

We see that from the very beginning God created from nothing a world that was good. In that world God raised up from the dust humans like Himself. Man and woman are in God's image and likeness. But that wasn't enough!

God so longed and desired to be united with His beloved children that He drew us into a relationship with Him through the covenants of old. Then He desired to draw even closer to us and He became one of us so that we could be completely united to Him.


Even that was not enough. In His flesh He saved us by dying but, most importantly, by rising from the dead. In this we finally see the ultimate victory over death and sin. In the resurrection we see what God has desired to do all along. 

And yet, God is not even done there. God is still working to draw all of creation closer to Himself. This is what we see in this vision from the Book of Revelation.

At the end of the world God will unite heaven and earth in a perfect union. No longer will those two places be separate. God will finally put this world right. This is what God has been doing from ancient times. He has been working to draw the world into a perfect union with himself. 

At the Second Coming of Jesus, at the end of the world, all the dead will be raised just as Jesus was raised from the dead, and this world will finally be put right. Then God will perfectly and completely unite heaven and earth in an eternal and complete union, a new heaven and a new earth, a new Heavenly Jerusalem!

We hear: "Behold, God's dwelling is with the human race. He will dwell with them and they will be his people and God himself will always be with them as their God.
  He will Wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain."  

God's desire is to put this world right, unite this world to Himself, and destroy death and pain for all eternity.  This is what He has been doing from the beginning!

This is heaven, a very real physical place.  God does not want us to spend eternity in some fluffy place where we go about skipping from fluffy cloud to fluffy cloud all the while strumming a small harp.  NO! 

We will be raised from the dead (as Jesus was) and this earth will be put right and united with God perfectly.That is heaven!  That is what we've always hoped for.  Not some fluffy spiritual place.

So the question then becomes... what are we doing now?  Are we just killing time between now and then when Jesus returns in the Second Coming?  Is our job just to take up space in a church pew once a week, be good for the rest of the week, and then just waiting?

NO!  Not at all!  We've got something to do.

The best example that I can give is similar to the old commercial for "Shake 'N Bake" chicken.

You might remember the old commercial.  A young girl helps her grandmother make chicken for dinner. Everyone thinks the chicken is fried but the young girl tells everyone that it is "Shake 'N Bake" and then she proudly exclaims, "And I helped"


This is very much like what we are supposed to be doing.

Notice what we hear in the Gospel.  Jesus is speaking to His Apostles at the end of the Last Supper, just a few hours before He will suffer and die on the Cross.

It is in this act of love, in this gift of Himself on the cross, that we see the fullest expression of God's glory.  

Look! Look upon the crucifix and see the Glory of God!  There it is!  That is God's love and glory on full display.  God's glory is seen in His total, complete, and limitless gift of Himself in Love.

This is the reason that He tells us, "I give you a new commandment; love one another.  As I have loved you, so you also should love one another."  

Jesus isn't asking us to just "be nice" to others.  Rather, He is commanding us to love others as He loved us.  This is a call to give of ourselves is sacrificial love.  This type of love isn't easy.  That's why St. Paul said, in the first reading, that, "it is necessary for us to undergo many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God."

This self-sacrifical love is hard and difficult.  And yet this is what Jesus is commanding us to do.

Our job is not just to kill time between now and Jesus' Second coming rather we are called to work with the Holy Spirit as God continues to put this world right.  God is working to get this world ready for it's union with Heaven, at the end of time.  Our job is to cooperate and work with God by our self-sacrificial love.

You and I should be working with God, through our work of loving.  When the end of the world comes  and God has put this world right and united it to Himself, we should be able to say, like that little girl in the commercial, "I HELPED!"

That is what we are supposed to be doing between now and then, between now and Jesus' Second coming.  The world should know that we are working with God to put this world right because they will see that we are His disciples because we have love for one another.

Monday, April 22, 2013

Homily 4th Sunday of Easter: April 21st

Here is my homily from Sunday April 21st, the Fourth Sunday of Easter.


I'm back

Hello All,

I've been really bad about updating my blog recently.  

I am going to try to make a greater effort to post things more consistently.

Feel free to send me an email if I'm getting lazy again and remind me to post more stuff.

Monday, February 18, 2013

A beautiful prayer and song

Hello all,

Some of you may know that I am a big fan of bluegrass music.  One of my favorite bluegrass artists is Alison Krauss and Union Station.  I came across this song last night and it brought me to tears.

I really feel as if she put to song (in her angelic voice) a very personal prayer of mine.

Enjoy!

Monday, January 28, 2013

Homily: Holy Family Sunday Dec. 30th 2012

Hello all,

For some reason I did not share this homily with you.

I received an email from someone asking me for it and I went back and looked and I found the recording of this homily.  If not it would have been lost to time and eternity.

Thanks again to Adam for recording this.


Sunday, January 6, 2013

Homily: Epiphany Sunday

Hello all,

Here is my homily from Epiphany Sunday.  
I'm grateful to Adam who records this from time to time.  His work saves me a lot of time typing out my homily, illustrating it, and posting it here.